Bettie Huang Week 11: Controlling the Narrative
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Power is not always necessarily about who has the most money, highest position or authority, or the loudest voice; sometimes, it is about who controls the narrative and how it is perceived by others. Perception shapes reality, and in America, the way people perceive power often determines who actually holds it.
As I visited different parts of the country, I noticed that different communities define power in vastly contrasting ways. In large cities, like New York or Los Angeles, the people there connect power to wealth or influence, including their occupations and who they interact with, as well as their network circle, while smaller towns relate power to reputation, community standing, and to who can rally people together when something needs to get done.
Perception can also determine how we view authority. Some people may regard police officers as protectors of the people, while others may view them as oppressors. A politician can be a beacon of light and hope for one group, promising reforms that may improve their welfare, while to another, they may be seen as a corrupt figure, bringing harm to people’s lives. The same events can be interpreted as a victory or as a threat, depending on the lens through which they are viewed.
Being able to control perception can usually result in immense support, allowing individuals to shape public opinion, build trust, gain followers, and maintain influence. It gives a reason why branding is so important, whether it's in politics, business, or even personal identity; the ability to shape how others see you can make the difference between success and failure, acceptance or rejection.
This disconnection between perception and truth isn’t just personal—it’s everywhere, found in politics, social movements, and whenever we discuss race, wealth, as well as privilege. The person who controls perception holds incredible power. And in a generation of social media where narratives shift with every tweet and headline, the power of perception has never been stronger.
To navigate the thin line between perception, reality, and power, we should question the stories we're being told, recognize our own biases, and realize that understanding power is about how it is seen, not just about what exists. Sometimes, perception can be the most powerful force we can wield.

Hi Bettie! I love the topic of perception and its role in traditional power dynamics, whether it is the interpretation of power or the acquiring of power. It seems like such a nuanced topic that generally gets overlooked in light of other, more traditional ideas of power. I feel like the influence of perception also goes past the interpersonal relationships within communities and groups of people, but also down to the actions of individuals. Similar to the idea that your image depicts, a simple change in perspective can completely change a person's outlook on any given situation, potentially drastically influencing outcomes. The example you brought up about politics seems like the perfect example of perspective and its power, as not only can it decide the person who gets to run the entire country, but it is also able to split society into two completely different ideological groups purely based off of how they perceive a candidate and their policies.
ReplyDeleteHi Bettie! Your blog post was such an insightful read. I love how you framed power not as something purely tangible—money, status, or authority—but as something far more fluid: perception. What stood out to me the most was how clearly we can see these different perceptions of power even within our own blog cohort. Every post represents a unique interpretation of what power means—whether it's about authority, personal agency, systemic influence, or even something as small as who gets a sticker at Kumon. It’s so interesting how each perspective is shaped by the writer’s own experiences, and how, just like in society, the way we view power is constantly shifting depending on who’s telling the story. Your point about perception influencing authority really stuck with me. The idea that the same figure, a police officer, a politician, a leader, can be viewed in entirely opposite ways depending on the viewer’s experiences and biases is such a sharp observation. It reminds me of how perception can make or break someone in the public eye. We see it happen all the time in pop culture—one day, Taylor Swift or Sabrina Carpenter is being torn apart as if they’re the worst women in the world, and the next, after some PR stunts and a narrative shift, they’re practically revered. The same applies to politics. The perception of a candidate, rather than just their policies, can determine their success, and the effort required to maintain or reshape that perception is not the same for everyone. A black woman running for president, for example, has to put in far more work to be perceived as competent and electable than a white man would. The standards of perception aren’t evenly applied, and that imbalance directly impacts the power people hold in society. I apologize for the obnoxiously long comment but the idea that power isn’t just about having control but about how others see that control is something you articulated so well in your post and I loved reading it.
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